Finding greys has been freaking me out more than you can know! So I WILL be a slave to the colour. :p My hair is one of my few vain things. I see too many youngish yet old before their time women around here who are all frumpy and dumpy, and I'll be honest the grey hairs don't help. I think if you take the time to be stylish and "youthful" in your appearance, some grey or all grey doesn't matter. But when the whole package is downhill then yeah not so much.